South of Sunnyside

The grass is greener where the water is turned on

Here’s to five more

Since I haven’t been setting aside time to write regularly, I almost let this slip past, but Wednesday marked the end of my fifth year in Fresno, and the beginning of the next five. (Maybe.)

I could write a book about the things I’ve learned in that time (not to imply that anyone would read it), but there are a few overarching themes/lessons learned:

  • No person is perfect; thus, no community of people can be perfect
  • You get out of a community what you put into it (somewhere a former school teacher is smiling)
  • Success is a relative concept
  • Dogs make everything hairier

For historical purposes, I’ll offer a short overview of the move out here:

I was done with school—and with the South; Kim and I had been dating long distance for a year and I wanted to be closer; I had saved enough money to buy a truck, rent a trailer and fuel the 2,211 mile trek. What I didn’t budget for, however, was the expense of two (yes, 2) transmissions and an extra three nights in Elk City, Okla., where the first one left me and my brother stranded.

After five years, I’m proud to call Fresno home. Most of the time.

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  1. kiel July 18th, 2009 7:00 pm

    Happy to have you, even though I didn’t know you that whole time.

  2. Sabrina July 19th, 2009 8:30 pm

    glad you like it here. we are happy to have you.

  3. Sabrina July 19th, 2009 8:31 pm

    oops, miss-spelled my name ;)

  4. james July 20th, 2009 8:36 pm

    Thanks guys! You’re both examples of what I find so promising here – true authenticity.

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